Moving Along... with a new attitude towards life and friends :)

Even High school wasn’t this dramatic. Drama, Drama, Drama … so I have decided to move my butt outta town and cleanse myself of this unhealthy environment. My heart aches for my poor sweethearts who have to stay here and continue to have their bodies and minds polluted by all this negativity.

My roommate and I ceased going out, thinking we could avoid rubbish infecting us but alas… I tell una gossip, trouble, hateration dey still find space enter our quarantined environment.

That is why I have decided to move… I already intend on relocating back to 9ja this year, but since it isn’t time for that yet, I have decided to go live with my grandparents in a very gorgeous city by the Ocean. Ever since I made my decision, I have been soooo happy… I cannot wait.

I have been looking for jobs, and I’m pretty confident that by the end of the week I’ll have a job waiting for me … after all I am a college graduate( lol… don’t think that works anymore) . Tomorrow, I will be giving my two weeks notice at my current job … so they can plan my good-bye parry… abi send off, sharp, sharp.

OOOHHH Blogville, today I am the happiest girl alive… because in two weeks, I’ll be on a new adventure… I love adventures. Even though I might stumble across some haters on my new journey, at least I am fully aware of what to allow into my system now, and what to definitely keep out… no more time for fake friends, acquaintances, and what have you. This facebook sef don pass my power…lol (time to start hitting the delete button on peeps who I know r just tryin to be nosy… GOSH!)

All this makes me wander, do guys go through the same stress women do?... U know all the petty ish? The gossiping about me aspect doesn’t really bother me cus its high school. What gets me is the way women behave… I think I’m just tired of women being catty to one another, misleading their friends, and just being overly superficial.

I was on a trip recently with a not –so-close friend, and this young lady poured her heart out to me… by the time the trip was over, I was exhausted. This girl has sooo much heartache, so much sorrow , and so much bullshit she is putting up with from this idiot who doesn’t know her worth cus he’s seeing a couple of other ladies and hasn’t had time to find out her worth . However, I blamed her for her situation … she is the one accepting the mistreatment (not sure if that’s a word). Let him go for goodness sake… end of discussion, why r we still talking about it and trying to justify what he is doing… He is totally wrong for screwing you , and her, and her… and the fact that you all know about each other is sick … very , very sick.

So yes , I am moving away form it all, the stories about being mistreated, actually watching people being mistreated , people pulling me into their useless non-productive gossip, girls constantly wishing evil for the next … being gossiped about is a given, I accept it and expect it so I am definitely not moving away from that.

I am going to be focusing on my career… people have been insisting I get my own talk show or start my own PR/ Events firm (they say I’m good at what I do)… well lets just say, I am listening to people- POSITIVE PEOPLE- and I will be using my time by the beach (if its not to cold) to draw out my business plan. Nigerican has only begun and she sure aint going nowhere but her demons are.

Kisses Blogfam… now go vote for Abbie on blogville Idols!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!