My Own Soap opera
its as dramatic, without the credits at the end... or are there credits at the end?
Tuesday, August 25, 2009
Never ending Soap!!!!
Yes i am 19 weeks pregnant for the man i lurrrrve :). R we married ?... hell no. If your asking why, the truth is we are not ready. I love him and know in my heart i am going to spend the rest of my life with this knuckle head... so basically no rush down the aisle. Besides, i am totally against getting married because of an illegal pregnancy ... lol all pregnancies are legal in my "think-outside-of-the-box"mind .
By the way, if no one told u before ...Pregnancy is soooooooooooo overrated. I feel like a big moody gas bubble , my poor child's father ( a.k.a baby daddy) is soooo tolerant... to be fair he shud be after all he DID THIS!!!... ok, i might have played a tiny role, emphasis on tiny lol.
Anywho, since all i can do is sit at home and be an incubator of Gods precious gift :)... looks like i'm gonna be back on the blogging scene- writing, stalking - basically turning back into the blog whore i once was ... LUVIN IT!!!!!!!!!!!!
Until my next update :D xoxo
Tuesday, December 02, 2008
Where has the time gone?
I am off to 9ja in a few weeks ...yippie...4 good ...double yippee!!!!. Well technically, i should be ...BUT... i have not bought my ticket yet , i intend on doing that this week ( if only i can find one less the $2000). I have sold my car , yes Ester is going to her new home this Friday *tear*. This week is my last week at work , and my apartment has received my 30 day notice ... so it is tres official that i am outta here, preferably before Christmas.
This year has been a fantaboulus year, i had the best and the worst experiences in one year that i have ever had in all the years of my life... trust all of it will definitely last me a lifetime. I made some cool new friends, some cool fake friends, some acquaintance ,and more importantly , I became friends with myself ...which is honestly the bestest friend i could have made this year :).
I did some crazy ass shit this year , that i probably will never do again but sure had mad fun doing... have i ever mentioned i don't do things i know I'll regret...except I'm drunk lol , and even then we can blame it on the liquor or the devil :)... whatever, people shouldn't be judging others anyway.
I don't know if moving home is such a super idea, but i know it is the right idea "Right Now"...whatever happens after that atleast i'll have fun experiencing it right :)... no regrets.
On a random note, but equally as important as my rantings... I am launching my retail store ...YIPPEE!!!!! Yes blogville, you are officially the first non-personal or should i say faceless friends to know that yours truly has been a busy bee ... technically, i don't have a store and if my idea works , i will not need a store... oh yeah, your girls been dreaming big but big dreams need big funding , so fingers crossed ... i'll let you all know in a week.
Ok, I have procrastinated enough and sadly i must return to packing . i had a nice time writing as always... feels good to be cyber home .
Kisses blogfam
Wednesday, September 03, 2008
MY LAST POST!!! Miss Nigeria In America- My Scoop!!!
Tuesday, August 26, 2008
THE BEST 9JA PRODUCTION EVA...It Pours II - A Short Film
I'm sooo busy at the moment blogville...lol... who am i kidding , i'm just lazy. However, i've been enjoying these short movies from Toks production.
Lets talk about "giving unto Ceaser what belongs to Ceaser"... this shit is great, an absolute masterpiece and its Nigerian!
Bravo to these guys ,honestly. I swore off 9ja men today because i was feeling funky and blah blah ...but ...after watching a couple of these short films (the guys live in Chi town) i wanna go home now. 9ja men are just toooo sexy.
(internal chant)
Help me focus Jesus, and do not let the devil lead me astray...
...back on track now, enjoy the clip *wink*
Thursday, August 21, 2008
SELF TALK 101... back to the basics
God has a greater plan for me and i need to stop interfering with him.
I will no longer compare myself to others ...Y? Because i am me of course and not them.
I will no longer surround myself with negative people and energy.
I will no longer be upset that they are both married , after all i wasn't serious then and they are both great men.
I will make my relationship with God much stronger, i now know he is the navigation system i seek.
I will get my priorities str8... right after i purchase those hot shoes for MNIA( i swear, i will).
I will no longer allow people to influence my decisions
Not everyone is meant to be a business owner, sometimes we are content as workers...as long as we r doing something we love... i wanna do something i LOVE.
I am GOING to do something i love... and if i change my mind, that's my own damn business ...so tired of trying to please everyone.
I will enjoy the rest of 2008, regardless of any unforeseen circumstance
Trends are sooooooooo overrated, and i am done following them. With that said, no more celeb editions... there is enough bad/good celeb coverage on the net or should i say blogville .
I will continue to blog about peeps i feel are not always seen on the scene that deserve ubber props and recognition.
Kini big deal ? I'm done for the night .
Wednesday, August 13, 2008
Celebrity Edition IV : Tosyn Bucknor... Awesome chick extraordinaire
Anyway in reality, i don't care too much for the games just the male swimming( hot bods) and female gymnastics (very inspiring) ... everything else is sooo whatever.
So back to my celebrity editions; the way my editions are *suppose* to work is in this order-
- Celebrity look-a-like/ inspiration
- Music ( Any cool 9ja group or person i feel is deserving of acknowledgement ( Big up Kel :) ) and
- My cool summer interviews with cool peeps
......BUT!!!!! since its me, and I'm enjoying blogging about my cool summer interviews, I'm gonna go ahead and put my next cool person up. Enjoy!!!!
This lady needs no introduction whatsoever, her journey and accomplishments thus far says everything about her...or so we think. Here's my exclusive writeup on Ms. Toyson :).
Tosyn Bucknor- Writer, Entertainer , and Founder of The non-profit organization
“These Genes”.
A graduate from the University of Lagos, where she studied law before heading to law school, Tosyn is a lady with a big heart and an even bigger mission. As a person living with Sickle cell, she knew the importance of making it a disorder people talked about instead of being ashamed of. Through her foundation, people are encouraged to learn about the ailment , donate to the various projects , spread the word, and lastly Volunteer .
Tosyn is very honest, and shares with moi that “ running a non-profit project involves dealing with human beings, which means dealing with egos, feelings, emotions and every other thing that comes with it” ,...all this and she still optimistically says it is an opportunity for her to learn about people.
This year, These Genes will be shooting a documentary to show the daily lives of individuals with sickle-cell ,a show that promises to be educational and a great eye opener for many.
A celebrity auction Fundraiser is also in the works in the near future … lets just say celebrities , like Ebuka from Big brother Nigeria might be up for grabs.
Regardless of all her projects ( Documentary, Fundraising for the cause) Tosyn still finds time to do the things she loves , such as : spending time with the family, meeting new people on her very own s.h.a.r.e network ( a site she created for anyone who wants to mingle and network), writing for her ‘Strictly for the Young’ section in the Sunday Guardian , or bellowing out some melodies as her alter ego CON.tra.diction.
If you ask me , this amazing lady is just getting started. She acknowledges the need for her organization to branch out to other parts of Africa, as sickle-cell is rampant on our continent… but first she says “Our first expansion will have to be to other states in Nigeria”.
Bon chance Miss Tosyn , we are rooting for you.
Fun Facts: Tosyn Bucknors 2 fav quotes :) ...
- "We only live once. If we live well, once is enough!"
- 'If I live my life according to their pace, what is my prize in life's meaningless race?' - that's her personal quote.
Check out some of Tosyn's websites to learn more about her, or to make a contribution to "These Genes"... remember every lil bit helps :) :
Friday, August 08, 2008
Celebrity Edition III- The Introduction of Ms. Ebi - CEO Inden Web design & development
Don't get me wrong, i give onto Cesar what belongs to him... but ... i also know there are way too many Cesar's out there, for us to keep focusing on a select handful.
I personally enjoy chatting with the Cesar's , who are like you and I... you know, your everyday Joe or Joan. The ones that are behind the scenes achieving greatness beyond our imagination. I love putting the limelight on them, because you always learn awesome new things from them or about them. Ok now that i have said all that, i can begin my proper post :)
Nigerians have been on the scene for years in every industry you can think of , but recently we got tired of simply being there and now we are taking over big time. I had the opportunity to interview 5 young , successful, and talented Nigerians ranging from diverse careers and backgrounds. They all had a ton of goals, but the one which kept being reiterated was " to better Nigeria ( of course) and to change the perceptions of our great Nation" .
These individuals, were bold enough to go down a different path in order to make their dreams a reality. All motivated by different reasons but driven by the same thing… Passion!!!!
Allow me to introduce my FIRST!!!!
Miss Ebi Atawodi- CEO Inden Web design & development
http://www.inden.co.uk/
http://www.inden.com.ng/
http://www.wed.com.ng/ ( were your customized wedding website can and will be built to your satisfaction)
Her contact information can be found on any of those websites. Please feel free to hit her up for a guarenteed job well done.



